The women these days are smarter and more cautious when going on a date with strangers especially with the number of date rape cases going on the rise. However that should not be a factor stop them from going on a date with a person with honorable intentions like yourself.

Here are some creative ways to ask her out.

Walk Over and Ask

More often or not, the hardest way to ask her out is by going over to her and pop the date question right there. That being the least complex and puts forth your intentions straight to the point. However the challenging part of it is being strangers, she may be wary if your intentions are of honorable nature.

Of course chances of a direct rejection is much higher going by this approach. If she accepts you, congratulations. But if she doesn’t, take it with a pinch of salt.

You may be wondering how can this idea be creative? Read on for more.

Start Off With A Complement

Start off by giving her a compliment. Compliment on her actions or the things she carries around instead of her looks. Doing so really does make it seem your intentions less doubtful and probably less of a pick-up line.

For instance if you saw her parking well and ask if she could describe the techniques she uses. Ask about the laptop she’s using, the performance and value for money as if you’re really keen on one for yourself but hesitating for some good reasons.

These ways may serve as good starting points leading to a conversation and end of with exchanges of your cell phone numbers to call back soon.

Be Familiar To The Stranger

There’s a difference between strangers and total strangers. You may have seen her every week doing her groceries, hanging out the laundry or walking her dog. You don’t know her name but certainly know quite a bit about her and the activities she does. These encounters are considered strangers.

If you find potential dating with any of the strangers you regularly see, try to observe her bit more closely. Getting to know her schedule or places she frequents. Then wait for the appropriate moment so you would stand higher chance of getting to know her.

When you see at the cafe in the morning, do not ask her out while she’s picking up an espresso-to-go. Chances are she’s in a real hurry to work or somewhere. Wait for a better time – say Friday when she usually spends the afternoon lazing around with a latte. That should be a good opportunity to make conversation when she’s not in a hurry.

A good place to try approaching her would be at the Laundromats. Simply because time is in your hands and there’s is nothing more boring than waiting for your cycle to finish. That makes enough time and opportunity for you to make your pitch. Make sure that you’ve made your background check. If she reads while waiting for the laundry to finish, ask about the book, bearing in mind to keep the conversation light so she will not be put off by your presence. Always put on a smile to show your genuine friendship you have to offer.

Advantages Of Having Common Acquaintance

People are in one way or another connected to one another. If you’re able to find the connection to her, things can never be easier. Spend some time observing her. You may find a common friend if you’re lucky enough. Once you find that common friend or acquaintance, set up a chance to have you all for an outing together. Soon as you get past the “hi” and, “hello,” you should be able to spend some time together alone.

There’s really much fun and excitement in asking her out for a date. Overcoming the challenge is quite fulfilling. However, make sure that your intentions are genuine and honorable.

Have fun!



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